We all know that on the day, bridesmaids are expected to support the bride as much as possible getting her into her gown, calming her nerves and cold feet, and generally being on hand for any duties that crop up. However, when you are a bridesmaid, you may also be asked to help out with some things that you don’t expect, both on and before the day. Keep reading to discover what they might be.

Bachelorette Party

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Being a modern bridesmaid kind of means you need to be ready for anything, including organizing a killer bachelorette party. OK, some brides want to arrange these themselves, but for many, it can be a pleasure to let someone else step into the driving seat for a bit and just sit back and relax while the fun happens.


So if you do find yourself in this position as a bridesmaid, then make sure you get as organized as possible. It’s vital to give everyone attending enough time to save for the event because as discussed at http://www.cosmopolitan.com/lifestyle/a45507/, the cost can be a major issue. Also,  it can help to let the other attendees have a vote in what you do. As not everyone will want to do every activity, and that’s fine. Just make sure there is a good variety to keep everyone as pleased as possible. As this will help you live up to your role as a successful bridesmaid. I also think it’s possible to ‘overthink’ the hen party, and often something simple that appeals to everyone is the way to go, and this can avoid it being too pricy for everyone involved too.

Wedding Ring Advice


Another unexpected role that you may find yourself fulfilling when you are involved in the bridal party is offering honest advice to the bride. Remember there are so many choices the bride and groom have to make when they get married, it can really be overwhelming, leaving both parties doubting their own opinions. Particularly, on the important long-term things like picking the right wedding rings.

However, that is just where the help of a good bridesmaid can be useful. As an honest, objective, and informed opinion can make the choices that they happy couple do have to make that bit easier.

To get a jump on this why not use sites like http://yourdiamondguru.com/reviews/kay-jewelers-review/ to get some advice on where to buy the rings. Then you can be the voice of reason in the mire of indecision.

Although of course, it does always help to wait until you are asked, or until things really get to a  crisis point before offering some advice in a gentle manner like the ways suggested at https://zenhabits.net/how-to-give-kind-criticism-and-avoid-being-critical/. As no bride wants to feel bossed around concerning anything to do with her special day!

Running Guest Interference

Lastly, you may not expect it, but it’s quite likely that you will be asked to run some guest interference on the day as a bridesmaid. This includes keeping an eye on some of the more frail attendees like the ones described at https://www.caring.com/questions/alzheimers-and-wedding, and even the more rowdy ones!

After all, no one wants Uncle Bob breakdancing on the floor because he has one too many whiskeys! So it’s up to you to ensure that he paces himself and has the occasional soft drink in between shots!

My girls were such a special part of my wedding day. Above all; support the bride and be a great friend! She will be so grateful.

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