I’m so excited to finally share this news because I’ve been keeping it secret for ages just incase. I’m so happy to finally confirm that our wedding was selected for the Real Weddings section of national magazine Wedding Ideas Mag! We are in the December issue which is on supermarket shelves now!

I was delighted when they wanted to feature some of our photography and even more delighted when they asked me to write the article that accompanied the photos- seeing my words in print for the first time is truly special and has spurred me on even more to continue with my writing.

When we got the email confirming that our issue was released we rushed down to the supermarket right away and bought a few copies. I could barely contain my excitement as I ripped one open and saw our name on the contents page! Maybe it sounds vain but I was so excited to see us in a magazine. I hope that all the information and ideas that we provided will give some inspiration to other couples thinking of a relaxed beach wedding.

So – that’s my exciting news! Big thanks to Wedding Ideas Magazine for choosing us and here’s to much more writing in magazines in the future!!! Fingers crossed.

Would you ever send your wedding pictures to a magazine?

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We all love our holidays; hot or cold, far or near our holidays are our saviours in a world where we are always working. I love going abroad and exploring new places, however, in recent years with the rise of the ‘stay-cation’ it has come to my attention that there are plenty of beautiful and well worthy places to visit in the UK. I mean we are seriously blessed with stunning coastline, rolling green hills and absolutely picture perfect countryside. If not always the weather to go with it – but hey ho! So, my husband and I seem to have found ourselves partaking in the fast growing trend of ‘glamping’ for some of our holidays.

So what is glamping?

Well, essentially it’s glam camping. Hence the name. All the beauty and wildness of camping – but with a few luxuries thrown in. The luxury element can vary – sometimes you could stay in a fully heated yurt or bell tent with a full sized double bed, or it could mean a tree house in the forest with a compost loo. The facilities are not what makes it glamping – it’s the fact that it’s camping, with a difference. Something a bit special that sets the experience apart from the rest.

I’d like to share one of our favourite glamping experiences with you. We use the website ‘Canopy and Stars’ to choose our trips and they are fantastic. They can be expensive but they only advertise the best, most different, vintage, kitch and crazy glamping opportunities out there. Eco treehouses, camping pods, lodges and even a bedroom in a sphere suspended in the middle of a forest in Cornwall are all among their offerings. There are other sites but I have found them to be the best and their write ups of the sites are very detailed and accurate. You know what you’re getting into!

Ges the Horsebox – £135 per night

‘Ges’ (coincidently pronounced Jess) is a traditional horse box and pony trap situated in the Surrey countryside; a combination of staying in a retro, up cycled vehicle and camping in total isolation and peace. Ges is sitting in a field, in the middle of another field, which can only be reached by driving down a deserted country road in the most rural part of surrey. To my delight, apart from the staff in co op when buying out supplies for the weekend, we didn’t see another human for the entire weekend. Pure escapism. Seriously, the interior was gorgeous, and to say that the owners had thought of everything was an understatement.

The little pony trap was converted into a stunning modern bathroom with luxury toiletries. There was a picnic set, board games, colouring books, fairy lights, hot water bottle. The back porch was complete with bunting and a tambourine! I felt like I had wondered into a 1960’s hippy festival daydream.

I’m a huge advocate of the ‘digital detox’ – even as a blogger! I think it’s really important to step back from our devices and reconnect with nature once in a while, whether that be as a person, as a couple or as a family. It’s so nice to have no TV or distractions, just each other. Time to talk, laugh and truly enjoy each other’s company. We had no electricity, no signal, a gas stove to boil a traditional kettle or grill some toast and a BBQ which we used have burgers for dinner. Other than that we munched on the home made cake and bread which was provided in our gorgeous hamper when we arrived, along with milk, water and a few other essentials. It was blissful. I’d recommend this glamping trip without a doubt.

You can view Ges & other amazing glamping experiences on the canopy & stars website.

Have you ever been glamping??

So, those of you who follow me on Instagram will probably know that we have just received our professional wedding photography! I apologise for the overload of wedding pictures on all of my social media right now – but it’s pretty exciting. I’m so happy with how they turned out especially considering the less than perfect weather conditions!

I thought I’d do a little post about how we chose our photographs and share a few of our favourites. There were 700 photos taken on the day and we had to get it down to our favourite 70! It was so tough.

We had the photographer for a pre-bridal session with my bridal party and family, for the ceremony and an hour of the reception to catch the cake cutting and a few more key moments. A lot of couples choose to have the photographer stay on for the whole reception but I just wanted to let my hair down and relax! I thought I may find a photographer there all night distracting. We also arranged a photoshoot for the next day – a sort of ‘wreck the dress’ shoot where we went in the sea which was amazing!

When whittling down wedding photographs I would give the following advice:

  1. Get a photo from every ‘portion’ of the day. At least one from pre-bridal or ‘getting ready’, the groom and best man at the alter, walking down the aisle, the ceremony, the ‘I now pronounce you husband and wife’ etc etc. Then you will have a basic timeline of the day.
  2. Get at least one picture of every ‘important person’ and one group shot. Even if they’re not your favourite photos you need to make sure that both mums and dads, close family and siblings are represented when you look back.
  3. Choose a few which reflect different elements of the day. Although they may not have people in them when you look back in years to come it will be nice to remind yourself what your cake and table set up looked like. Especially since so much effort and planning goes into these bits.
  4. Get some that make you go, ‘Wow’. You’re the bride after all – get some of you and your hubby that you love! And any pictures that you will look back with fond memories.

  


 

 

 







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To create a beautiful wedding – it’s all in the details! You may think that people won’t remember the little things from the day, but in fact it’s what they remember over everything else! I don’t really have an eye for detail, so I left it mostly in the capable hands of our wedding planners in Greece (Zante Weddings) to organise, however there were a few smaller things that my mum and me chose in the UK and took out with us for the big day.

Table Set Up

I was totally obsessed with Pinterest before my big day and I spent many hours searching and pinning ‘boho table set ups’. I think you can tell! I wanted something simple, boho and rustic looking with pastel colours and ivory and definately not matchy matchy.


The flowers, mason jars and table wear were provided by the planner but everything else was found by either me or my mum and brought from the UK or sources in Greece.

The male favours for example (pictured above) were different Olive Oil Fusions which be bought from a local Zakynthian gift shop. We then tied the twine and favour tags on ourselves. In this picture you can also see the corner of our ‘bonus’ favours which everyone got on their place setting. We bought 50 scratch cards from the UK and placed them in vintage brown mini envelopes which we sourced from eBay! 

I was so pleased with our place name cards which also came from EBay. They were really good value and looked really classy and elegant. My mum wrote the names as she has such lovely handwriting! You can see these place name cards here.

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The favours for the girls were Olive soaps which, again, we bought locally in Zakynthos. I liked the fact that we were supporting the local community. We purchased the favour bags in advanced and they came from The Last Detail; a great website with lots of cute wedding decor ideas.

The favour tags, which we tied into each favour individually, came from ArtCuts UK; a lovely company which we found at the National Wedding Show. We ordered these cute tags pictured above as well as some really unique table confetti which were wooden too – to make a change from the standard rose petals!

Lastly – but one of my favourite things about the table set up – were our personalised stickers which we used on the scratch card envelopes. The came from Zazzle, a brilliant site where you can literally personalise anything for your wedding! They really made the envelopes extra special. 

Personalised wooden ring box.

This was a surprise for us from my mum. How cute is it?! She got it online, I’m not sure of the exact supplier but there are many eBay stockists who do similarly beautiful ones.

Guest Book Table

The vintage suitcases were provided by the planners, and the lettering is from Art Cuts again. Touches like this really make the reception venue look super classy.

You can just about see another Art Cuts sign which reads ‘Mr & Mrs Erler’ in the corner. Also pictured here is the table plan which we wrote in a ‘chalk look pen’ on a peice of blackboard from eBay. My mum also came up with the idea of the coloured pens and those bits of paper which say ‘draw a picture of the Bride and Groom!’ This was brilliant as it gave the guests something to do while they were waiting for the dinner, and it’s also hilarious to look back on lots of ridiculous illustrations of us! My creative cousin made the signs.

I even brought my ‘happy signs’ from my walls at home! They were a lovely touch to the inside of the villa.

Extras

A few photos of some extra thingswhich definitely  weren’t essential but really made a difference to the details. 


Vintage Just Married Bunting – EBay.

Self designed and customised card for my vows – Zazzle

Mr & Mrs Signs and Photo Booth – provided by the planner.

It’s true what they say – the devil is in the detail. You may not notice these small things on the day, but looking back at pictures I notice something different every time! I hope by sharing some of our choices it may give other couples some ideas for their day about what sort of thing is out there. Trust me – there is a lot of choice! 

Brides – have you made any decisions for your wedding day yet? 

xox

What a day it was.

The best, and possibly the strangest and most emotionally draining day of my life. Most importantly – the day I married my Prince Charming and became Mrs Erler.

It was  a beach wedding. An outside reception. Obviously we were planning on sun. But the Gods had other plans.

Yes, we had a freak thunderstorm, the likes of which hadn’t been seen in June in Zante pretty much ever. Yes, it POURED with rain all afternoon and evening so we couldn’t eat under the stars and have photos outside in the garden like I planned. And yes, in the videos of the speeches you can hear the rain literally lashing down on the emergency plastic cover the villa owners rushed to put up the day before.

However. We were lucky! I got to make my entrance, have the ceremony and most of the photos on the beach all before the heavens opened. And plus, the moody sky and thunder and lightening made for some amazing and very different photo opportunities!

It wasn’t what I had planned or imagined, but it was still amazing. Our guests still had an incredible time and danced all night. It was still hot, and miraculously no one (including us) really got that wet! My advice to any bride who has bad or shock weather on her wedding day would be: yes, you will be a bit upset. I had a few moments throughout the day. But you will still have an amazing day. And no one will ever forget it!

Plus, superstition dictates that rain means good luck and that you’ll have many children. So there you go.

A few details from our day which was organised perfectly by Zante Weddings. They did an amazing job and gave us the wedding of our dreams.

Bride: I wanted to go for a relaxed, boho look which would fit our rustic beach venue. My inspiration was the bride from the Mamma Mia movie. The most important thing to me was that I wanted a flower crown! I found that first. I discovered Ana Maria Bufnila and her beautiful handmade jewellery and hair pieces at the National Wedding Show.  She had my crown on display and as soon as I saw it I knew that’s what I wanted to wear – to me it was more important than the dress!

So, the dress had to fit the crown and not the other way around. My dress was probably only the 7th or 8th that I tried on in total, and on the first day of looking! I loved it. It was the perfect mix of beachy and loose with a little bit of bling, tight at the top and free flowing at the bottom with a manageable train. I also knew that I would be wearing flat sandals (from David’s Bridal) and the dress I chose looked fine with flat shoes.

I wore my Grandmothers pearl earring for my something borrowed, my dress and shoes were new, my something blue was a surprise from my mum which was a pearl bracelet with a tiny blue bead! So cute. My something old was a fairly last minute decision. I didn’t think I wanted a veil until my mum suggested I tried tucking the one she wore into the back of the flower crown – and it looked stunning. I loved it straight away! There was something special about wearing my mothers veil on the same day that she married my Dad, 28 years later.

Groom: Paul was somewhat relaxed about what he wanted to wear for the wedding! We both knew it wouldn’t be a full suit, firstly due to the heat in Zante but secondly because I think suits look a bit odd at beach weddings. We got the majority of his outfit from John Lewis. A nice pair of beige trousers with a white shirt and brown, leather boat shoes. The bowtie and the braces were his choice, but I thought they looked fab and something you don’t usually see for grooms. The pink bow tie was bought online from Mrs Bow Tie and the braces were H&M. My wedding gift to him was a gold, engraved pocket watch which he chose to wear in his pocket on the day which was a nice touch. He looked very handsome 🙂

Bridesmaids: I had 5 bridesmaids. A mix of family and friends. All lovely and all exceptionally beautiful. They are all different and so I didn’t want to dress them the same. I chose 2 colours of dress fabric from David’s Bridal bridesmaids collection and they could choose between the pale pink and the mint green. I also had them choose a style that they liked the best from 6 styles which are designed to match but are different cuts and fits. I would encourage any bride to do this. The effect of having not only 2 complimentary colours but also different styles looked amazing on the day. They also chose their own hairstyles so we had a mixture and had hair combs with a fresh rose and gypsophelia in it, which matched their posys.


Wedding Party:  Other than the bridesmaids the rest of the party was small. Paul had his father as his best man (pictured with Paul above) and we had one usher who was my brother. My Dad walked me down the aisle and my mum was also part of the party, she and my brother walked down the aisle together ahead of the bridesmaids.


Guests: We were overjoyed that 50 people came all the way to Greece for our wedding. We were surrounded by our family and friends and felt very loved the whole week. We were joined by my very large and Paul’s slightly smaller extended families, including my beloved Grandmother who, even in her 80’s, couldn’t be kept away. We were shocked and flattered by how many friends made the trip, many making it their summer holiday and we are so grateful. It means a lot. Everyone looked fab on the day and managed to grasp my rather vague dress code of ‘beach chic’ excellently!

Ceremony: The ceremony was at Cameo Island at 2.30pm. It was hot! This venue is a very popular and is truly an outside venue so we were extremely lucky that the rain didn’t come down earlier otherwise it would have need to have been relocated. It’s easy to see why the island is so popular. The bridal entrance is a set of rustic stone steps leading down to a stunning cove looking out towards the open sea without a person in sight. The rickety bridge, stone and pebbly beach for guests to dip their toes in create a magical atmosphere and some very different wedding photos.

The ceremony itself was very short with just a quick set of ‘I Do’s’ and the exchanging of the rings. Paul and I read poems to each other and although I didn’t look up he said there wasn’t a dry eye in the house! We also had a sand unity ceremony which involves the mixing of two bottles of sand into one; symbolic as well as a nice memento to keep. Warning – when it’s humid the sand doesn’t come out that easily!! You may end up spilling it all over the table like me!! All of this was conducted under a beautiful wooden arch dressed with flowers standing on scattered rose petals. We walked back down the aisle to ‘Hold My Hand’ by Jess Glynne and the confetti was thrown and that was it! After what seemed like a million pictures and a few bucketful’s of rain it was time for the reception.

 

Flowers: We decided to leave it up to the florist. I know nothing about flowers so I decided it would be best to trust the experts on the occasion. Looking back there were actually quite a lot of floral arrangements involved in the day in one way or another. We had my bouquet, the bridesmaids posys and hair combs, buttonholes for the boys, corsages for the mums, flowers for the arch and aisle, flowers for the cake and of course the stunning mason jars all along the table. Considering the brief I gave the florist was ‘pretty, pastel and wild looking’ I think she did an amazing job and I was blown away by the flowers. They all tied in together without being matchy matchy which is my worst nightmare! Personal favourites were my wildflower bouquet (of course), the button holes – a single rose with daisies and gypsophelia, and of course the beautiful table jars which next to the plain white table set up were one of my favourite things about the whole day.


Reception: The reception was held in the gorgeous Artina Villa, a beautiful cliff top building over looking the blue Greek oceans – on a clear day! Unfortunately my visions of guests sipping champagne while listening to the Greek musician quartet and admiring the stunning views didn’t quite come to fruition. We had the champagne and the musicians (who were fab!), just the view by this point was somewhat obscured by the low lying and very angry storm.

The reception was decorated beautifully with extra surprises I wasn’t expecting like chalk board signs, vintage suitcases and a station for guests to draw portraits of us! All arranged by my thoughtful and clever mum. The table set up was one of my favourite things and I was so pleased with it. With a relatively small group I was adamant about having one long table to give it a more casual and family feel. Not only did the mason jars look amazing but we also had hand cut heart table confetti, hessian envelopes with scratch cards inside for each guest with personalised stickers and paper name place cards in the shape of birds. The favours were sourced locally- olive soaps for the girls in a hessian bag and olive oil for the boys, finished with a personalised tag.

We enjoyed amazing Greek food and our yummy cake for pudding. The speeches from my dad, Paul and the best man were all brilliant, funny and moving in their own way. However, my brother was the one who caught me off guard with a ‘Wedding Day Song’ he had written and performed it on his ukulele. It was hilarious and also so sweet it made me bawl. Paul even admitted to shedding a tear. It was the perfect gift.

The evening went so fast and before I knew it the table was cleared and we were dancing he night away as the rain continued to pour. We had a lovely firework display which went ahead even in the conditions. Funnily enough the rain finished just in time for everyone to leave and we had our sparkler send off.



Cake: We wanted a simple, no fuss cake because neither of us particularly like icing. A naked cake made with Victoria sponge and fresh fruit was perfect. And how stunning was it?! It was so yummy it didn’t last long as the guests ate it for pudding. No saving the top tier for us!



First Dance: A few weeks before the wedding I mentioned to Paul that I found the concept of a first dance really awkward! The thought of 4 minutes swaying in the soot with everyone watching made me shudder. We had already chosen ‘Thinking Out Loud’ for the song and I suggested, somewhat jokingly, that we should choreograph a routine to do on the night as a surprise like Ed does in the music video! Miraculously Paul agreed! One of my most memorable moments of the evening is the gasps and ‘Awhs’ from everyone when we burst into a seemingly spontaneous dance routine with lifts and everything! Plus it was brilliant fun practising in the lead up too.


Wow, what a marathon! I could go on and on but I think I’ve covered the important bits and what I’ll want to look back on and remember in the future. What words struggle to express is the love and warmth we felt that day, and all week, from all our guests who felt like one big happy family. I have never felt so lucky. I got to marry my soulmate in (almost) paradise surrounded by people I love. And that’s all that matters really.

xox